I just broke up with my boyfriend of four years...?

I just broke up with my boyfriend of four years...?We were supposed to get married. Things have been going downhill recently, but I can't keep fighting with him. I am sinking into depression because of him and I want to start my New Year fresh without the bad energy. Is there anything I can do to help me with this transition? It is very hard for me, but my mental health has to come first. Any advice? Please help.

Answer by Promise
have a positive attitude and do something that keeps u busy...

Answer by priscilafreakinrox
my mom has gone through this also, so i know how u feel.
she ended up getting back 2gether with him.
im not sure that was the best decision but.... whatever.
my advice to u is:
meet other people.
date.
u only have one life.
live it.

Answer by crazygrl
aww well i think that breaking up with him will do u alot of good
al u need is time basically
find something that will keep u occupied and stick to it.
dnt be depressed!
u only have one life .
so live it!
have fun
dnt be sad
!
=]

Answer by OnLy ThE tRuTh
sounds just like me i broke up with my ex about 5 months ago after a 4 year relationship the first couple of years were great then we started fighting and arguing everyday last year he asked me to marry him and gave me a ring i thought it would change things but i was wrong so i finally left i moved away (about an hour with my sister) its good you got away hes never gunna change and if you think marring him is gunna help it wont then you will just end up with kids and it will get worse (kids do not need to be around fighting) so what i did when i broke up with him and left i kept myself very busy going out with friends and family and i ment new people its going to be hard the first couple of months but just think positive and if you feel really bad then maybe you should think about talking to someone just make sure you have friends and family around to help and support you i wish you luck.....

Answer by Michelle C
You have made the frist step! Leaving what you no is not a happy place for you! Yes its stings at frist but you no what has to be done! If you need a freind please contact me

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