What is so strange is when she was a young child she was a sweet a child as you would have wanted to know...but when she started reaching 15, 16 years old, her whole personality changed. That sweet child became secretive, manipulative, easily aggatitated....her personality did a 180 degree turn.
She is now 35 years old has been married 7 times. Yes, that is not a misprint, 7X. She works for the state but is soooo good at hiding these marriages...maybe she doesn't get married and just tells me she is married...I do not know. I am left with these men grieving and crying at my door, asking what did I do?? Why did she leave me? Please help me...What can I do? I do not know what to do! But, they are really nice people, as far as I can tell..They are all foreigners...I do not know what that is all about, though...Some have been Mexican, French, German, and others.
Now she just recently left her last husband??? and has another guy she has hooked up with...I am just too tired to fool with this crap anymore, so I emailed her and told her that she was welcome at Christmas, but that her dad and I were through with all these men...I really am sooo tired of it all. I am not in good health at all. I would just like to have a nice Christmas together.. I did not mention that my daughter has an uncanny almost genius ability to learn and speak other languages. My husband and I have no talent for other languages but we have surely tried enough to please her. Also, It saddens me when she does these men so dirty. She takes from them and leaves them high and dry. Will someone please, please enlighten my husband and myself on what is going on here? I am at a loss as what to do...Please help
Answer by Rita V
Sky, A person who's bio polar is a master manipulator they will get what they want no matter what, even if they have to lie or steal, as long as they stay on medication they seem to be normal but they always tend to go off their med's for the high, the meds make them calm and must have some bad side effects it's pretty obvious when they stop their meds they ramble on and talk so fast you can't understand what their talking about. they tend to get bored easily that's why all the x's, they are genies and are very good at some things just like the languages, sky there's not much you and your husband can do, she's an adult I don't blame you and your husband for stoping all the men coming to your house. My heart goes out to you it's usually the family that suffer the most, i know this sounds harsh but the next time she gets in trouble you have to let her go and try to get the judge to commit her for help. You will never have peace in your life. I think Michel angelo was bipolar and look what he did the chisteen chapel. I wish you luck and my prayers are with you/ Rita V
Answer by Peter Vega
Hello
I' will be here straight into your face okay?
Well be a bipolar means ( i will get what i wanna anywhere) by codding it in the back of person mind trough all his/hers experiences from the past es. violent abuse, drugs,alcohol abuse and self conscious hate and lock in itself and rejection for laugh.
Reading this letter it make me understand that your daughter she has committed frauds before.
Well she still do,as far i do understand she is committing other type of crime meaning (marriage scum)
es:A marriage scum is when person is marrying other for financial purpose and leaving this person when wallet is empty,without any feelings.
She didn't committed this once or twice but as you said 7 times.
We can't call it an (Marriage scum) if equal person does once in a life time then we call it a relationship failure due to luck of understanding and luck of finances is blamed,and if divorce proses are agreed by both parties and settled in right way.
If you ask me if your daughter is she in trouble? The answer will be YES if all this man forward a complains to police it will be matter of minutes to prove that.
It is only matter of time as she will make one mistake and then she will end up in jail for long time.
I' don't know your name but the way you wrote your letter it show that you are great mother,and you don't deserve this hell.You don't need to speak foreign languages to be a great parent,but every thing that you both have done for her till now prove you great.
Also YOU don't need to impress your daughter, but she should do.
Please don't blame yourself for it,for that what your daughter chose to be.
As an adult she made this happen,and you guys on your own just can't stop it.
The best advice of mine is to forget your daughter by rejecting her away from your life.
Why i say that?
Is just because these kind of people once they change into this state,they will never change.
It will be the best for you and your husband's sake.
As every time she faces trouble she turning back to you.When you do help her,she is turning herself away from you both with double the impact on your life's and health.
Get her to psycho dept: these people can only help her.
You have to stand for it and simply say enough is enough !
Best of luck
Kind Regards
Peter Vega
Special Relationships and Family Support
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